Showing posts with label fellowship. Show all posts
Showing posts with label fellowship. Show all posts

Sunday, November 29, 2020

Essential Personnel

 

There have been several words and phrases that have entered our every day conversation. One of these is, “essential personnel.” A few Sundays ago, as we were preparing for our livestream setup, we were concerned if we would exceed the 10 person limit in our skeleton crew. We had a conversation about not having to count the “essential personnel,” who needed to be there. Someone mentioned the preacher as being “essential personnel,” along with the elders, and worship leaders. Then it dawned on us. There is no such thing as “essential personnel” in the church, if by that you mean some personnel, but not others.

I am reminded of this passage in 1 Corinthians 12 that deals with this idea using a human body as an analogy for the church. Here are some highlights:

14 For the body does not consist of one member but of many. 15 If the foot should say, “Because I am not a hand, I do not belong to the body,” that would not make it any less a part of the body. … But as it is, God arranged the members in the body, each one of them, as he chose. …21 The eye cannot say to the hand, “I have no need of you,” nor again the head to the feet, “I have no need of you.” 22 On the contrary, the parts of the body that seem to be weaker are indispensable, 23 and on those parts of the body that we think less honorable we bestow the greater honor, … God has so composed the body, giving greater honor to the part that lacked it, 25 that there may be no division in the body, but that the members may have the same care for one another. 26 If one member suffers, all suffer together; if one member is honored, all rejoice together.

The body of Christ is different than the world. Our value does not come from the manner in which we may useful, but from being created in the image of God and redeemed by the precious blood of Christ our Lord. At great cost, God redeemed each of us and placed each of us into the body of Christ, which is entirely precious to God. There is no such thing as nonessential personnel in the body of Christ.

I prefer to say, “skeleton crew.” A skeleton needs the rest of the body. This is what I have been painfully aware of in the last several weeks. The skeleton conducting the livestream have said how hard it is to be encouraged in the way we would like because we are not all actually together. Those who have been watching from home have also expressed the same sentiment.

You are all important to God, and you are important to the rest of the body. When all of this passes, hang on to the renewed appreciation you have for the body and come back with a renewed energy for being connected. Outdo one another in showing honor and value. Hug each other. Appreciate each other. Be together. Thank you, Lord, in advance, we know that all of us will ultimately be together with you.

Friday, March 20, 2020

The Lord's Table in the Presence of An Enemy



Obviously, some of the ways Communion is practiced among faithful Christians has not always been identical in every time or place.  The look of the table changes, the type of utensils change, and even some of the methods of making the wine/juice and bread changes.  In fact, the invention of grape juice that kept on the shelf without naturally fermenting was invented in 1869 by Thomas Welch, who invented a method of pasteurization that kept the juice from fermenting.  He marketed it as, “Welch’s unfermented wine.”  Prior to this, wine was much more common in communion.

It was also in the late 1800’s that individual communion cups began to be used.  Before this time, most churches used one or two single cups that everyone drank from.  Some churches had a couple more for the sake of time.  In the 1890’s churches began to use individual communion cups to help stop the spread of some of the outbreaks of disease at the time, including diphtheria and tuberculosis. 

There were those who opposed it.  Some claimed that there was no case of someone catching a disease from sharing a communion cup, and that the metal in the cups along with the wine made the cups an inhospitable place for germs.  Nevertheless, the individual cup became the standard for many churches.  But the majority eventually were in favor of it for practical reasons regarding sanitary concerns. 

I find the design of some of the early cups rather interesting.  The slanted design of the opening of the cups was to make it unnecessary for the congregant to have to throw their head backward while drinking the cup.  The reason for this was so that it did not resemble those who drank liquor from shot glasses.  They did not want drinking from those communion cups to resemble what people were doing in the bars.

The latest development of communion ware is the individually prepackaged cup and bread.  Last week as the first time I had ever used one of these.  The Corona Virus outbreak caused us to decide to use these for the same reason church leaders began using individual communion cups over 100 years ago.

In the midst of all of these developments, one thing has remained consistent and unchanged.  The two items remind us of the body and blood of the Lord.  They remind us that only he is our bread of life, our source of life and spiritual sustenance.  They remind us that he has brought us together as his body.  We gather as one people and one family around the Lord’s table!  He prepared this table for us in the presence of all our enemies.  Whether it is sin, powers and authorities opposed to him, or even a virus, nothing can snatch us out of his hand.  Our place at his table is secured by the blood that he shed for us, earning us a place at his table.  We are reminded that his life is our life.  We are reminded that he has bound himself to us in covenant that was executed through his own blood, the blood of our Lord!

Due to the current pandemic and the instructions of doctors, leaders, and other professionals, we are not able to meet together around the Lord’s Table at our regular meeting place.  Some do not have Welch’s grape juice or matza at home.  Some feel guilty for this.  Others feel like they are giving in to worldly worries and should “have faith” and meet anyway.  And there are those who have defied the instructions of our leaders and health professionals and decided to meet any way in groups of over a hundred people.  I am not sure that this is wise or even desirable.  As we have made the wise and godly decision to not meet physically, here are some truths to reflect on to keep all of this in perspective. 

First of all, the Lord’s Table is not something we have built, but something Jesus himself has built.  With wood, nails, and blood stain, he went to the cross in order to bring us around the Lord’s Table.  Every first day of the week, his people all around the world gather around his table.  Some gather under a tree, some gather in a building, some gather in their living rooms.  Regardless of the physical place or the physical furniture, the actual table of the Lord stretches all around the world. 

Second, God desires mercy and compassion over sacrifice.  This principle is what allowed hungry people to do a little gleaning on the Sabbath for their personal self when they were hungry in Matthew 12.  This principle is why Israel was able to still observe Passover in an unusual circumstance in 2 Chronicles 30, even though they did not have type to properly consecrate themselves.  Their desire to get right with God in the integrity of their heart, rather than carelessness was key.  Those who do not have Welch’s grape juice or matza on hand may find themselves trying to find something else in order to not miss out on communion.  It is a high point of the week for many people.  I remember a brother telling me, “No matter what happens through the week, when I meet the Lord at his table, it brings me back where I need to be.” 

Third, God is with us even in these unusual circumstances.  We are not able to meet physically at the present time due to the sickness.  Fortunately, we are able to connect with each other through the use of technology.  Whether it is through live streaming worship, communion, and a Bible lesson, or through participation in an online blog or study group, there are still ways we can stay connected. 

Fourth, faith, hope, and love do not diminish during times such as this.  Our faith is not in our health, but in our Lord, who overcame sin and all of the ills that came from it.  Our hope is the place he is preparing for us, where there will no longer be any more pain, mourning, or death.  Our love is what motivates us.  Paul himself said, “The Love of Christ COMPELS us.”  Our decision to not meet physically is motivated not from a sense of self-preservation as much as it is out of a sense of love for our fellow man.  We do not want to be the ones inadvertently spreading a sickness that may to the life of another.  So, we have decided to take precautions by not meeting as a large group.  This is another example of mercy over sacrifice.  This is also why ministry is still happening.   This motivation of love is something that has moved brethren to look after those not able to get out due to diminished health.  Whether it is delivering groceries or other supplies, or simply a phone call to make sure everything is okay, brethren are looking out after those who need it.  This is yet another way for the light of Christ to shine when the darkness comes.  Truly, perfect love casts out fear.

I recently read some timely remarks from Dr. Kent Brantley, the Christian doctor and fellow ACU graduate who was working with a Medical Mission Group several years ago in Africa.  He contracted the deadly Ebola virus and survived after receiving an experimental drug when he was returned to the states.  Concerning the Corona virus, Brantley said, “The coronavirus outbreak is an opportunity to "choose compassion over fear,"  He went on to say, “I am thankful to the many, many people who said 'yes' to me in the midst of my most desperate need, allowing me to be flown to Atlanta and treated at Emory," Brantly said. "I'm thankful for the compassion that was shown to me, and I will advocate for that same type of compassion to be shown to others, including other health care workers who put themselves in harm's way in order to protect the rest of us from a global epidemic. …Fear has a dehumanizing effect, both on those toward whom we project our fear as well as on ourselves.  We cannot allow fear, however reasonable it might seem, to dominate us and drive our decisions. We live in an interconnected world; the well-being of all of us is directly connected to the well-being of each of us. The best way to ensure self-preservation is through joining in the suffering of others and together finding the way forward."

This is the perspective of one who has accepted Christ as Lord and understands faith, hope, and love in Christ.  Our faith, hope, and love gives us the lens by which to see such things as this.  As we commune together, let’s meditate on all these things as give God thank for our hope which propels us into the love of God.

Monday, July 02, 2007

The Theological and Practical Reality of Christian Fellowship

I have been doing some reflection about the nature of Christian fellowship and implications regarding occasions when brethren do not get along, act in an immature way, offend each other, or are self-centered.

Theological Foundation

The theological reality, according to Ephesians 2, is that God has formed the church with each of us as an integral part. Each of us are an important part of the body. Each of us are living stones in God's house. Ephesians 4 stresses that we are "one" body and therefore need to preserve the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace. Thus, our relationship to God is tied to our relationship with each other. That is why Paul makes the point in 1 Corinthians 12 that no parts of the body can say to other parts, "I have no need of you (1 Cor 12:21)," or "Since I am not a hand, I am not a part of the body (1 Cor 12:15)." Regardless of how anyone sees themselves, by God's design, they are a part of the body. Therefore, when we feed, clothe, visit in prison, and care for the "least of these brothers of mine (Matt 25:40)," we are doing it for Christ because they are a part of the body of Christ. This is why Jesus instructs us to go and be right with our brother before coming to worship God (Mt 5:23-24).

Based on this theological truth, Jesus instructs us to reconcile with our brother if he sins against us (Mt 18:15)[1]. If he doesn't listen, you involve a brother or two, and eventually the whole church. If there is no change, then fellowship is to be withdrawn. What this demonstrates is that fellowship between brethren is tied to fellowship with God. Fellowship severed from your faithful brother is severed fellowship from God and vice versa. You cannot be right with God and wrong with your brother, and you cannot be wrong with God and right with your brother.

Practical Implications

What then, are the practical implications of all of this when brethren are angry with each other, when they distance themselves, when they back bite, offend, or leave the family in a huff? It is tempting to sometimes say "good riddance," especially when the one who leaves is a factious brother. In that case, there should have been discipline exercised in order to preserve the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace. That is why Paul urged the Roman Christians to reject a factious man after a first and second warning.

As I reflect on this, I remember brethren in the congregation where I grew up quoting passages of scripture in support of getting rid of people they didn't like (such as 1 Cor 11:19 stating that there MUST be divisions in the church), to passages to bash the church for not doing more to keep the sheep from being scattered (such as Mt 5:23-24 - saying this was only a one way responsibility, a brother goes to another if that brother has something against him, but when it is the other way around, going to the brother is not required). As I look back, I realize they were proof-texting and disregarding the overall theological picture of what fellowship was about in the interest of their own agenda. I too, have been tempted to do the same thing. It is too easy to ignore problems in fellowship because it is not always a pleasant thing to deal with.

The fact that fellowship between God, my brother, and myself are intertwined means that there is a mutual responsibility. God gave of himself sacrificially to provide the means for fellowship, but he does not force us to come to him. Coming to him is our responsibility. In the same manner, there is a mutual responsibility we have toward one another. We should give of ourselves to each other sacrificially in the interest of preserving the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace. But like God, we cannot force our brother to do so. That is our own personal responsibility. In other words, there is a mutuality of responsibility in maintaining, strengthening, and preserving Christian fellowship. The numerous "one-another" passages demonstrate this mutual responsibility. It is not a one-way street.

Our practice should reflect our theology. Our connection to each other is based on the redeeming work of God and his acceptance of us into his kingdom. It is not based on whether we "like" what is going on the church. Nor is it based on 100% agreement on every detail of doctrine, but on God's acceptance (Rom 14:1-6). If God accepts someone, then naturally we are to accept them as well (Rom 15:7), or we will find ourselves putting a filter in place God has not.

We should never be so quick to write brethren off, even if they are hard to get along with or we disagree with them on something. If someone is upset, there is a mandate for both of us to work through it. If someone is being hurtful, mean, or ungodly, it jeopardizes the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace. There is a mandate to work through it. Preserving fellowship is so important, that in the case of someone who continues to be factious, fellowship is to be withdrawn. If someone is distant, there needs to at least be some sort of effort to mutually confront this problem and remedy it. If someone leaves in a huff, there is still a mandate to at least attempt to work through it. This is preserving the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace. However, we cannot force them to stay or to reconcile. They will give an account of themselves to God (Rom 15:12), not of us. This is why Jesus did not spend an inordinate amount of time with the uncommitted. When people who had been following him no longer followed him, they were free to go (Jn 6:66). He asked his disciples if they were going away too. They had a choice, go or stay. This was not a time to straddle the fence.

Keeping all of this in mind, it would seem that the following considerations would help to put "feet" in the theology of fellowship:
1. Each member is to take the initiative to be connected to the body
2. There should be teaching of the theological basis of fellowship and the inherent responsibility each person has in it. It is not optional.
3. A self assessment tool should be used to assess understandings, attitudes, and practices regarding fellowship
4. Leaders and members should work to strengthen the weak links in the body
5. Leaders and members need to recognize that expressions of fellowship have a functional aspect. We are incorporated by God in the body as a body part with a function. Expressing Christian fellowship is fulfilling the function, not individually, but as a part of the body in order to carry out God's mission.
6. Leaders and members should candidly work through various scenarios involving challenges to fellowship and apply the theology of fellowship in working through solutions.
7. When one becomes a member of the congregation, an introduction to the responsibilities involved with fellowship should be part of the incorporation process. It is not optional.

This helps to get out in front of fellowship challenges and to be proactive in promoting fellowship. It is a mutual practice. It will not suffice to point a finger at other brethren and blame them for the lack of your own fellowship if you have made no effort to strengthen the bonds with your brethren. At the same time, it does not suffice to be distant simply because you may not feel an overwhelming need to have a connection with the brethren. Fellowship is not optional.

Fellowship is an integral piece in the missional purposes of God. With a healthy and vibrant fellowship, the energies of the church can be focused on mission rather than refereeing. It would be difficult if not impossible to carry out God's missional purposes with an ailing fellowship.

[1] Some manuscripts add "against you" in this verse, making it more personal.